Yesterday, my lecturer taught me some memorable lessons. Everything he said was true. So, he said that nowadays in this very generation, most men do no longer know the boundaries of loving someone. He said men are good at using sweet words and there are actually lots of them who don't really meant what they've said. When man tells us that they love us, care for us, and that there's no one else who can replace our position in their heart, they're just telling us some crap. And what we do is accepting every single word they said as if it comes from heaven. We're so happy that no words can ever describe our feelings. Everything around us seems like a perfect scoop of vanilla ice cream.
So there you go. Feeling completely loved and adored. Still and all, as we started to give in all our heart to the guy who we think is real prince charming, they begin to tear us apart. They begin to say things we don't wanna hear, and our heart is ripped pieces to pieces. I'm clearly not an expert on love myself, but it's just the way i see things now is pretty fair and realistic. I do know that we need to fall in love, we need to love love and love. But it's not that easy for me to believe in every word men say anymore. I've learned it the hard way. I see many men around me, with all the circumstances given, as I watched it myself, I know that they're all devious.
Men nowadays don't really stick to do the right one. They tend to take an irresponsible action w/o even care what will it do to us. Okay, here's an example. One of my friends is in a relationship with this cool and nice guy. They've been in a relationship for months and they're really planning to have a future together. I took that as a very serious relationship they're having. However, there's this guy who came between them and started to give them some difficult situation. He has feelings for my friend even though he knows that she's already has a boyfriend. He told her all his feeling and he doesn't care whether it'll change anything or not. Of course that distracts my friend, knowing there's someone out there who seems to love her with all his heart and actually care for her no matter what.
Oh well, like what my lecturer said, men in our generation are no longer care with the transparency love rules. They don't care anymore whether that girl has a boyfriend or no. They still put an effort on it and try to win her heart. It's ridiculous how some men can interfere one's relationship and actually feel superior about it. It's true that not every man likes to play game, but believe me, 99,9 % of men likes to play games. Especially when they know that they'll win the game more often than not.
What I'm trying to say is that yes we're stupid when it comes to love and relationship. We don't really think with our logic and we just follow to where the wind blows. But I’ve got to say that we have to be more careful next time. We have to learn to be secure when a man gives us all the crap. We need to chew all what they say but never to swallow all of it. Never let our guard down coz once we're weak that's when we're in smithereens. Don't just believe in everything they say without they're proofing it to us through their actions. Observe carefully and don’t fall into their trap so easily coz once we get ourselves ruptured, there’s just no cure for it.
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